Lady Pamela

I am happy for someone to be in the room watching you. I can arrange a person of either gender or trans.
The service provider who is hired will be paid their personal rates.  If you arrange to bring someone then a rate of 100 euro per hour applies. they are not welcome to touch me in any way.
They are not welcome to lear at me or glare at me or pleasure themselves while looking at me. That person is there to add to your pleasure. Such an odd act would take away from your experience. They are welcome to move around the play area in various positions to see what is happening.  The voyeur is welcome to finish themselves by any means that involved just themselves. If it is appropriate to our session you the client may wish to finish them as long as it does not impede our play or cause danger.

Cash is preferred.

I can send a payment request from my bank for small amounts. This can be paid by credit card. 

You may bank transfer.  Bank locations available: United Kingdom, Australia, FInland.

Payment must be cleared before booking begins. International payments need up to 5 days to clear.   In practice transferwise and Revolut have payments handled the same day.

Finland now has Pikasiirto.com for internal instant bank transfers. PaySafeCard gift vouchers purcahsed inside Finland at any R-Kioski by bank card or credit card.  These vouvhers are annonymous and easy.  Just text a pic or bring to your appointment.  i add these to my account.  10% surcharge as PaySafeCard charge to get the money out. 

E-Gift cards – Instant and annonymous online purchase by credit card E-Gift cards from websites such as:
Finland – https://www.gogift.com/fi-FI/product/100524/SuperGavekortet
Australia – https://www.prezzee.com.au/

anywhere – amazon.de

Immediate email delivery to me at LadyPamela@Hush.Com means an immediate start for our session. 

These commonly used, independent gift card websites means your data is secured by trusted  gateways.  The best part is these gift voucher services have no link to my services, keeping your purpose private.  

PIVO – A Local ‘App’ in finland for instant money sending.
Up to 500 euro.

I do NOT do unsafe = unprotected services
Unsafe sex would be my body fluid combining with your sexual fluids. I do Kiss passionately. ( I am very happy for golden showers = Urine = champagne to be drunk or inserted in your body, for your safety i am regularly checked for STD = sexually transmitted diseases. Urine has a very low viral load and is highly unlikely to cause infection of any kind in the unlikely case of viral presence.)
I do NOT do acts that would cause grievous (severe) bodily harm such that the life of my client was at risk
I do NOT leave clients unattended when restrained (all such services are a fantasy, a role play, not actually risking the life or wellbeing of the client).
I do NOT castrate men (all such suggestions are a fantasy and have no actual reality)
I do NOT CIM (happy to force you to eat your own cum or that of a special guest on request)

I do everything else, and I do it for fun…

I do not charge extras generally.

What we do in our time is free to be decided or flowed into unplanned, or planned.

Some rare specialty services requiring much clean up and time organisation than others are charged with an appropriate fee to service.

I arrange complex services for clients involving multiple people, varied locations, the booking or restaurants, cars, helicopter (once and would love to repeat that), performers, interior designers and flights. All other people are paid deposits or pre paid per their professional service arrangements. For ongoing clients, client who i already have a relationship with, or are involved in ongoing retainer, I do not charge for such arrangements.

For new clients i am paid a deposit for the session time you are booking with me, which is totally transferable if you need to change the date and time. Also you will pay a fee for my time to discuss and arrange.

Yes.

I currently live in Helsinki.
I am available to travel to other cities of Finland for Appointments. I travel further than 1 hour from helsinki is booking time is 3 hours or more. Travel expenses added.

Travel expenses depend on type and location of appointment.
The cost of hire car @ ~ 40 euro a day.
My time to travel to you is 40 euro an hour depending on location and time of day = by agreement/ applicable for short bookings at relatively close range not longer bookings further away.
Flights are @ seasonal costs ~ 80 euro London / Berlin / Amsterdam / Denmark / ~ 100 euro Gothenburg / Paris / Barcelona

Europe is so accessible a Short trip to Paris or longer trip to Malaga in Spain has been easy to arrange.
I am regularly in London, England; Amsterdam, The Netherlands; Copenhagen, Denmark; Gothenburg, Sweden.
If you would like to travel, to have a deeper experience, to find something that is not available in your home town, or not possible in your home town as eyes are always watching, I am happy to arrange.
A play party for just the two of us! or i have some very ‘specialised’ friends in Europe who can come to add a little extra energy, vibe, ideas, or simply the pleasure of someone lovely to look at.
travel expenses and deposit to be paid upfront.

Out-call (I travel to you) service to a venue of your choice hotel, home, office, spa centre, or restaurant is possible.

In Helsinki I have an apartment near MTV in Pasila. I am Happy to take appointments here.

If you require for a specialised session or simply prefer for Aesthetics a particular kind of venue i can arrange.

I have access to a wrestling venue
I have access to a Dungeon venue
I have access to wet room medical room

These are booked depending on availability at an extra charge.

Laws for in call services of local country and state are respected.

Where licensed venues are required they will be provided.

In Victoria Australia- to provide an in-call service is illegal, therefore, you will either provide your home, friends home, hotel or motel,

NO campervans, caravans, panelvans, garages, back seats, parks or gazebos please 😉

I can locate a venue which is licensed and hires rooms for the purpose needed.

Outside Victoria Australia – I provide in-call (you visit me @ )

Usually a serviced executive apartment style of accomodation.

You can be assured of cleanliness and privacy and discretion. I check very carefully for the comfort of my clients how discreet is the access, how is the parking, that reception can be avoided, that there is privacy of what room you enter and how you exit.

Can you come out?
Yes I am available to visit your hotel or your private home.
To visit a hotel i need the room number and the surname the room is booked under.
I need that room booking name because when i call the hotel and ask to be put through to your room, the receptionist will ask for the surname the room is booked under.
I will call your room to confirm you are in that hotel at that room number supplied at that time.

To enter security lifts:
You may ask the concierge to leave a key card in an envelope for Pamela.
On arrival at hotel I ask for the envelope and let myself up to your floor. I knock on your hotel room door.

Alternatively I also ask the concierge to call your room when i arrive for the appointment, again i need your room booking name (surname) and room number.

Feel free to change the name of your room booking if you can think of any ill to could come from a surname given. I have seen very high profile people and cannot find a single risk so far. Sex work is legal in finland and Europe generally, there is no weird american laws here.

I do not meet people in the Lobby. I do not want to be on camera meeting men in lobbies of the city. Nor would you want to be seen meeting (what is then due to lots of visits) a known sex worker.

To visit a private home you will need to send a pic of the address from a letter in the house, or drivers license. feel free to obscure the name.
I only visit venues alone where you are home alone.
If there is a party happening let me know, we can negotiate a meeting in a private way. Perhaps i can bring some friends to add to the vibe!

Cash is preferred

Cash or other payment first on arrival.

When meeting in my apartment, after you enter and take off your shoes and put your bag down. I will greet you warmly and that is the moment to give me the money. I will ask at that point for payment, i will check about what service you are wanting, how long you are staying, if you feel you might want to extend time or you have a tight schedule that day. I will ask about anything in our emails or text messages that i am not clear about. This is the moment to tell me if there is a service you are curious about or did not mention previously.

In longer appointments (3+ hours) we will revisit this moment of clarification. For short appointments (under 3 hours) time is preciously short and we need to be efficient as so much of what i do is intensely experiential. For example a role play based session needs a clear moment of beginning so that you may fall into your role. Relaxing that you know what your place is. Three hours is absorbed rapidly when one is having fun.

Getting you a service that is worthwhile in the time you book is high on my priority list.

If meeting in public discreet payment upfront in a quiet manner is required -an envelope for example.

I will excuse myself directly to check the amount and put it away.

I am happy for phone call, text message or email.

I do not take bookings from private numbers. Unfortunately those who book with private numbers regularly do not turn up so i have had to set this as a rule.

Of course your welcome be anonymous by phone yet send a deposit and then i will of course take a booking. The usual deposit amount of bookings 1-3 hours is 50 euro. Longer bookings by negotiation.

If i do not answer the phone please follow up with a text message or email. I cannot answer if i am in an elevator, with a gentleman friend or in some public areas. Continuing to ring is not going helpful.

I do answer my answering machine so feel free to leave a message and your number.

Of course! Inside or outside my apartment!

My minimum charge of 250 will apply and we can spend time over a pot of tea and see how we get along.

We can start with tea and progress to a seriously hot conversation or get more private.

See outcall protocol for how to proceed with meeting out.

From experience i find that a two hour appointment at massage rates (400 for two hours) is the best way to get to know each other.

We are both stripped of our normal, every-day clothing, we are stripped of our pretences, it becomes clear that this is not a date, or an interview. The meeting is something much more. We can relax and allow pleasure to arise naturally. We can just be at ease. The days tasks are forgotten.

This is the best way to build relationship and trust and know if you want to become more physical or be happy with tea and a massage and comforting words and counsel.